Sorted.

It is not that difficult as you think. You are so conscious about where to start that you are unable to see what heights it can attain. Unclench your fist and let the fear shed away. The farther it will go, the higher you will pace. The only thing standing between you and what you want yourself to be is what you are not letting yourself be. Unafraid, that is. There are so many thoughts clamoring for your attention inside your head that you fail to surpass the din and look beyond all the hoopla.

All these problems cluttering your life are just pieces of garbage that would be effectively dished out once you take the control of your life in your hands. Don’t try to just hang in there, poised to face everything, with drooping heads and listless sighs. Instead, switch the control mode on. Clobber the negativity with a hard-hitting hammer and nail it down to the floor. Show it that it should never dare to get in your way again. Take the reins in your own hands and drive your own sleigh. Hog all the possible current opportunities and create them where none exist. Screw the ennui. Stop getting miffed. Start making lists, huge ones, and then get on to them with all the zeal that you can gather from inside your soul. Sure that conscience inside you knows better than you think,right?!

You are concentrating far more energy on what the world has got to say about you, when ironically, it has got nothing to say about you for real. Well, what have you achieved so startling that it should prize you!? And how will you ever, if you keep bothering about how you are bothering others?! Duck it; the world will never be happy enough, so it’s high time you got yourself a bit out of that happiness scoop before it eventually melts away . Listen to everyone but care about doing only what you think is right. Identify your priorities, think about your dreams, set your goals, plan your strategy and mull over it for quite a good time. Faith will cover the rest.
People might or might not take stand for you but your belief will never desert you; it will drive you forward in such scenarios where nothing else will.

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How to bite into a big slice of “success”?!

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Have you been slogging your way through work rampantly and still not been able to look success in the eye and call it yours ? There are truckloads of things you are doing wrong that are leading you nowhere but getting you bulldozed over time  and again. You may not be able to fix the whole galaxy around you but there are still a couple of things you could be doing right to ride high and smooth on those tumultuous waves. Here’s how! teamwork

  1. Cut your way “through” the herd rather than cutting yourself “off” it. It has been scientifically proven that months of hard-work amalgamated with rock-solid team-work has the tendency to pay off the maximum in most occasions. Your team can compensate for your shortcomings in such magical ways you cannot surmise. Plus the “trust” factor reaps off a plump harvest as at the end of the day,when…

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A Dreamer by day, a Visionary by night!

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a dreamer by day,a visionary by night LIFE AS IT IS.

So.Another day of my wanting-to-be-perfect-and-awesome life. You see,the problem with the whole thing is that ..

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sorry,I cannot concentrate when I’m eating :/

Okay,weaving the critical point back into view for a quick and healthy acknowledgement..here’s the prime takeaway from the day gone by.There are so many things to be achieved at some point or the other that we tend to grossly overthink a lot of them and who said hype-anticipation was good anyway?! What I have come to realize is the tiny pleasures of the day get lost in micro-analyzing the future and the prospects it would bring along.Whatever it would bring along can wait,but the current day is slipping out of our hands like some sand,one grain at a time.Like..like this chocolate crumb that I just gobbled up,if I keep eyeing the ones that are still left in the packet (though…

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DAMSEL IN (NO MORE) DISTRESS.

You spill popcorn and nachos while lounging back on your fluffy, cushioned sofas, watching movies and sitcoms, with your eyes glued to the screen, especially when a show with your favourite character is tuned in! You love and rever and worship their dialogues and tug at the lessons they deliver you with ardent devotion,surmising that those will help you keep the boat of your life afloat through ruffled waters(at some or other point of time! Presumably!) Similarly, I have got my own set of iconic heroines, the ones whom I grew up watching, reading, following and exalting, and they simply never fail to amaze and inspire me! These are some beautiful women(and pretty little girls),who pose as beacons of hope and courage and persistence; confident stalwarts, the sweet reminiscence of whose stories and acts, enlivens me and instigates me forward in every sense of the word!

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MERIDA, the child princess of the clan Dunbroch, featuring in the movie, Brave,is enough free-spirited and headstrong to defy the old norms and rather than yielding and consenting to her betrothal to the son of one of her father’s allies, she defeats each of her suitors in archery,and later demands her right to marry in her own time,to whomever she chooses for herself! In doing so,the little princess carves out a very special(and permanent)place for herself in our hearts,lending a profound message to the society that every girl has the right to fall in love,the right to marry the man she wants,and no one is disposed to tamper with her personal choices! No one! Not one!Nada!She goes on to rescue her mother from the blatant curse,fighting out all impediments with unprecedented bravery! She,in a way,stamps down the archaic notion that girls are meek and weak and need some outward assistance as they cannot fight for themselves.Atta girl! After watching this,your steps won’t falter anymore!

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Samantha Jones, Sex And The City. Only her name is enough! She is the most perfect epitome of a strong and independent woman,who likes to..err..LOVES to live life on her own terms! And cheers!She has the most tangible advice for every quirky or somewhat adverse situation.To the fans of the show,these might sound enough  familiar,but by any chance if you’ve missed it,here are some of the excerpts from her wisdom which she doles out almost effortlessly and endlessly!

.On breaking all conventionalities,she says,”It’s the crazy ones that have the good pills.”

.On self-control,she says,”Sweetheart,you can’t go on listening to every fucking little voice that runs through your head.You’ll go nuts.”

.On rigorous trials on finding one’s better-half,she says,”The right guy is an illusion.Start living your lives.”

.The best one being,”I’m done with great love.I’m back  to great lovers.”

.On self-assertion,”I love you but I love me more.”

Yay!You go girl!

These power-packed pearls of profundity will allegedly, gnaw at all the ropes of restrain holding you back,rendering you feeling free and empowered!

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Daenerys Targaryen, Game Of Thrones. She is the ultimate paradigm of “beauty and brains”and exemplifies courage and woman-power to its best! She went from a meek,petrified teenager with a sadistic older brother to being a queen,a leader of a huge empire! She went from being intimidated and subdued by her evil brother to exhibiting a strong and stiff persona! Hands down, this kind of woman can make any man go week in his knees!

As for the women characters to whom you might want to look upto for a little go-ahead nod and enlightening inspiration,there are enough of them! Both on TV and in books! The ones I shared with you are just the tip of the iceberg (‘coz sadly, I’m running out of time here !) But the most important thing is if you find anyone of such characters relatable to your life, do remember to remember their bywords, when you find youself in a fix and those might just fix that!  🙂

SAY “I CAN” OR ”I CAN’T”, EITHER WAY, YOU’RE RIGHT!

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“I want to be a trail-blazer. A go-getter. An envisionist. I wanna be as tall as a skyscraper while being as deep and moving as the ocean”,you dream,every single day before the darkness of the night encaptures you perfectly in its peaceful slumber.

Yeah,right.You can be.All of that.But what about when others mock you or insult you to throw you out of your own little path..?Sad,eh?

Breaks your heart,isn’t it? How awful of them! How could they hurt your feelings like that!
The golden keyword in such situations is “IGNORE”.
Because it’s not that you become somewhat inferior or incapable when someone condemns you and belittles you. Contradictorily,it just simply shows how little of a heart and mind they actually possess to move anything magnificient in this world.Something as magnificient as your faith.(So,have some pity on such poor creatures. Afterall, they are also the creations of the same Almighty!  😛 )

The thing is,a person is sum up of their thoughts,of their mentality,of their frame of mind.And once that frame is developed through the years,it can hardly be moulded into anything else.And that’s how the individuals differ.And that’s how they live totally different lives.Not essentially because they have different resources,but because of what they choose to do with them.

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You say,“I didn’t have any other option.”But may be,oh shrug it! Always.You always have the second option.The second option that should have always been your first priority.

Choose that instead.The option which renders your heart beating faster.The option that gets you going every other morning.The option that brings a sweet smile to your lips every other night.The option that leaves you thinking.The option that pushes you forward.The option that prods you to explore.The option that carves out your niche in a most perfect silhouette that no other option ever could!The option that resonates with every single beat in your heart.The option that is loud and clear with the thumping and pumping of every vein inside your body.The option which has your soul in it.

This option might easily be the inconvenient one out of the two.
But what are the odds?You might also win at it,someday.

How to bite into a big slice of “success”?!

Have you been slogging your way through work rampantly and still not been able to look success in the eye and call it yours ? There are truckloads of things you are doing wrong that are leading you nowhere but getting you bulldozed over time  and again. You may not be able to fix the whole galaxy around you but there are still a couple of things you could be doing right to ride high and smooth on those tumultuous waves. Here’s how! teamwork

  1. Cut your way “through” the herd rather than cutting yourself “off” it. It has been scientifically proven that months of hard-work amalgamated with rock-solid team-work has the tendency to pay off the maximum in most occasions. Your team can compensate for your shortcomings in such magical ways you cannot surmise. Plus the “trust” factor reaps off a plump harvest as at the end of the day,when you know you are all in the same boat!                                                                                                                                                                                                                    timeismoney
  2. Tap into your ingenuity in crucially productive times of the day. “Time is money”, and the quicker you imbibe this truth inside your head, the better. Sit down to write at 4:00 in the morning or kick the blankets off at 2:00 in the night to nestle yourself in your paperwork, if that indulges you at your best. You don’t have to earn more time, you already have enough of it. Invest cautiously in this prime resource and it might soon earn you a lot more than you ask for.                                                                                                                                                                                       motivation
  3. Motivation is not an overstatement. Go read a book or a blog or a newspaper column, whichever motivates you the best, rightaway! Lather.Rinse.Repeat.Every other day. Such compelling pearls of wisdom will foster you to jump across all the muddy puddles life litters your path with, to reach out to your dreams at the far-end of the rainbow.

         “You can only see the constellations in a night that is pitch-black.”

  (This one was for you to begin with! )                                                                                                                                              

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4.Make it a point to do something which soothes and pacifies you,every day. With the hectic schedule encompassing a lot of things to achieve, some times can be a bit much gruelling. All you need to do then is leave the rest of the world  aside and dig in your favourite hobby, artwork or whatever you love to splurge on. Remember, stress can leave behind only negative trails and you do not very much wish to slither down on your tracks, I guess?!

At the end of the day,you know you are riding uphill if your goal is to build a life you don’t wish a vacation from.   

🙂